long distance relationship.
well, do u have any experience w it, currently having it or are u going to have any?
for me, im soooo tired of it n trying my best to avoid to any commitment from distance.
im talking from my past experiences n to my horror, i had 3 before.huhu
1st is a guy frm sibu, 2nd is penang and 3rd is kl.
why why and why?
tell u d truth, i have no idea how i can jump into d rship.
1st is of course thru online n aft few meetings then terus declare.
communication is only thru hp and yming..
lame huhu.yes it is..
my previous rship is a guy from kl.
it didn't last long due to d distance n some cliche excuses.
but my on my side la, if i dah sayang org, the distance wont be an excuse.
terpulang pd hati lagi la.
org nak ke xnak..
so since dah 3kali failed, i want to make an announcement.
i will never ever make myself jump into such r'ship anymore.unless he's very into me sangat2, sanggup dtg kch sebulan sekali and last2 sanggup pindah kch.ado ke?[in my dreams la!]
tell u, it sucks!
the reasons are:-
- the phone bills are hiking up like a rocket
- jom, movies! -a big NO NO
- pompuan salu tingin nak bake a cake n hanta kat si dia terchenta is it?mimpila! p la anta thru poslaju kalo sempat.
- cannot enjoy the sunset together.
- jmpa boleh but very costly.tiket airasia, shopping2, mkn2 etc..
- sms never ending.cam xda keja lain.haih!
- insecure.salu imejin org tu akan jmpe org lain yg lebih dekat n leave.well, it happened to me!
- NO manja2! dlm handphone sahaja.bohhsaann
- need a lot and a lot of kesabaran, kesetiaan, kejujuran..dlm mana2 rship mmg ini wajib tp kalo jaohkan, mesti double up la semua ni.
- no breakfast2 together.
- salu gado n susah nak pujuk.mane feel pujok jaoh2 seh..
- u can never leave a love note in his car.
- missing ur loved ones till it hurts! cannot date ma..need to wait few months more due to budget, cuti n bla bla.adoi.this is mentally torturing, i honestly tell u.. =(
aiesey, bykkan downsidenya?
this will lead to emmm scandals?[me, never ok!] sbb dah jaoh kan.apalagi..
im not dat choosy u see.but i learnt a lot from my pasts and i dont deserve any heartbroken anymore.i've had enuff of it..
to my ex,
i won't blame u.we both wanted d rship and at last it didn't ended the way i desired but im ok with it.Allah has a better choice for me and i hope he won't be dat far ;)
serik?yes.sangat sangat serik. huhu..
well, what say you?